husband has computer..wife has bed...

okay.. there are certain instances during which either sxe (misspelled to avoid google search) of the husband/wife team becomes oblivious to the inquiries and responses of the initiator... i for one am woefully inadequate on my attention span and short term memory retention if the following condition is true: computer is on; i am in front of it ... my wife, on the other hand, just reminded me that if i discuss with her prior to sleep, same thing... as evidenced by a preceding statement i, myself, uttered in attempting to trigger synaptic recovery of a previous conversation "while you were falling asleep" ... yes yes ... i should have known .... "here's my sign"...